Rudeness

Today started with a lot more traffic than usually. I still have no idea how it comes that I have been held up by traffic jam all over the place. It already began when I left home to go to work. Instead of the regular 35 minutes, it took me almost 50 minutes to get to the office.

However, I accepted that, started my work, knowing I had to leave the office early enough to drive across the city and meet the legal Department at the other building.

Unfortunately another traffic jam came up and even trying to hurry up I was still unable to avoid being late. I hate being late. I consider this impolite towards the people I meet. And I don’t want to treat people like they don’t matter.

From the parking lot I ran to the entrance and arrived precisely at 10.03 am, with a three minutes delay.

One of the receptionists welcomed me, the other one listened. We introduced each other and I told them who I have a meeting with and that I’m already running late. One of the receptionists got on the phone – and I expected she would inform the legal department about my arrival – but far off! She had something different to do and I was waiting… finally the young paralegal showed up and… told me off for being 15 minutes late – which was kind of funny since she arrived at the lobby at 10.10 am.

Then she told me, that they never wait for longer than 10 minutes and they can’t see me anymore that day, even though we had planned half an hour for this introduction…

Then she got up, turned around and left, sending me out as I was a little girl who just had performed one of the seven mortal sins. I felt like I was kicked into my face.

On my way out I was that pissed I hyperventilated.

By the time I arrived back in my office I told it to one of my colleagues and then decided to send an email to the Manager of the Legal Department, telling him how things went, apologizing for the massive delay of three minutes and telling him that for the last 20 years I haven’t been treated as despicably and condescendingly as they treated me today.

So far I didn’t get anything back.

However… I am curious if I actually do hear from them.

That’s my day so far… can it get any better? Haha.

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16 thoughts on “Rudeness

    1. Only a little bit… But it’s been hurtful, yes. Thank you very much for understanding me. However, only a short while ago I got an email from the head of the legal department that he’d like to talk to me about what happened today and if I’m going to be available tomorrow for a phone conversation. Interesting, isn’t it?

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  1. That is so RUDE of them not to at least listen. They should have told the receptionist off for delaying saying you’d arrived and not you. I hope you get an apology from them in reply to your email. I hope you are in a position not to do any furthe business with them.

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    1. I don’t know what happened and how this is going to end. But I did make a fuss because it’s outrageous how they treated me. But Vivienne… I can’t just not do business with them… they’re my co-employees. Still: I don’t need that. I didn’t get a new job to be humiliated like this.

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